courtesy: My engine colleague :-)
Last night one of my colleague was discussing about art of appealing,that girls use principally to get things done for them from guys. He was showing instant examples were some three girls in my floor are standing at three guys cabin each and asking some clarifications. And the guys assuming some supreme pride in helping a beautiful(something is better than nothing) girl, would spend all their time in helping the girls request. Even competent girls will gradually moved to use this art, after seeing many girls with less effort getting more rewards.
Nowadays this is became a very normal working style for girls that they wont feel gratitude for the help,instead they thinks the guys who are not helping them are arrogant, and abnormal. While this is not the case with all the girls, I am afraid that it will be.
I don know if u will even come across this comment..looks like u hav not visited the blog for a long time. But still, I hav to say this on behalf of girl-kind (whtever tht is)
ReplyDeleteIt is true that in general,girls approach guys more than others girls for help. Yet, this is no way intentionally manipulative or anything. It is just that by instincts, we know that they wld be more eager to help. For guys too, it is a natural instinct. And trust me, it applies the other way too. A girl would willingly oblige to help a guy. I have known so many of my classmates who did the record notebooks for the guy. So, it occurs both way round mutually.
As for not being grateful.. I dont know. Perhaps, they openly did not thank but it wld have gone a gr8 way into building a healthy bond between the two. This is all inbuilt n should not be portrayed in a selfish light. Just wht i felt. :)
Thank you for the comment...within few months of this post,I have understood, its true its appiles in both way.
ReplyDeleteI was not having much interaction with girls then, to understand this.
Thanks again, to give your view from a girl's perspective, which aptly complementing this post.